There is an art to douching. And the boys at Toys of Eros in Provincetown are spreading the word. Douches are not all built alike. And just because you buy it in a drug store doesn’t mean it’s good. There are many kinds of douches with many different attachments. But many of them can be caustic to sensitive anal tissue, or can actually make things worse, creating a mess down there. We had to design our own to get the perfect douche. We call it The Perfect Clean, by Toys of Eros. The best way to get clean, involves a two step process. This is because you have several chambers in your anal canal, that lead upward to your lower colon, and then your intestines. It never ends. But anal sex only involves the first chamber. With that in mind, let’s examine the douche set that Toys of Eros recommends. There is one bulb to hold the water, and two different nozzles. (See Diagram.) The first nozzle you use is the one that has a hole in the tip, so the water shoots straight up into your rectum. If anything is inside the first chamber, you will expel it in …
Anal Sex for Total Beginners, or “Yikes, my partner wants to have anal sex!”
So he/she wants to have anal sex. First things first. No matter what anyone tells you, no one enjoys anal penetration with an average sized penis, or a dildo the size of a penis, without first working up to it. And by working up to it, we don’t mean using a finger for 10 seconds and then sticking your penis inside his/her anus. Working up to anal penetration with a penis, means using different sized toys over many sex sessions. To keep it pleasurable, everyone must start out small. Once someone turns off to anal sex, it’s difficult to come back to it. Don’t start with a finger: Many newbies think the way to start exploring anal sex is with a finger. Don’t. A finger isn’t necessarily smooth and thin. There are toys that are smaller and smoother than a finger. Choose a vibrating slim anal toy to relax the anus even more. Toys of Eros favorites are the Silicone Pop Beads, the O’Boy, and the Harvey. They are all the size of a finger, made of safe silicone material, and vibrate. The three most important ingredients of anal play are relaxation, lubrication, and communication. Relaxation: The anus is made of two …