The Art of Anal Douching and Anal Sex

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There is an art to douching.  And the boys at Toys of Eros in Provincetown are spreading the word. Douches are not all built alike. And just because you buy it in a drug store doesn’t mean it’s good. There are many kinds of douches with many different attachments. But many of them can be caustic to sensitive anal tissue, or can actually make things worse, creating a mess down there.  We had to design our own to get the perfect douche. We call it The Perfect Clean, by Toys of Eros. The best way to get clean, involves a two step process.  This is because you have several chambers in your anal canal, that lead upward to your lower colon, and then your intestines. It never ends. But anal sex only involves the first chamber.  With that in mind, let’s examine the douche set that Toys of Eros recommends. There is one bulb to hold the water, and two different nozzles. (See Diagram.)  The first nozzle you use is the one that has a hole in the tip, so the water shoots straight up into your rectum. If anything is inside the first chamber, you will expel it in


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Anal Sex for Total Beginners, or “Yikes, my partner wants to have anal sex!”

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So he/she wants to have anal sex. First things first. No matter what anyone tells you, no one enjoys anal penetration with an average sized penis, or a dildo the size of a penis, without first working up to it.  And by working up to it, we don’t mean  using a finger for 10 seconds and then sticking your penis inside his/her anus.  Working up to anal penetration with a penis, means using different sized toys over many sex sessions.  To keep it pleasurable, everyone must start out small.  Once someone turns off to anal sex, it’s difficult to come back to it. Don’t start with a finger:  Many newbies think the way to start exploring anal sex is with a finger.  Don’t.  A finger isn’t necessarily smooth and thin. There are toys that are smaller and smoother than a finger.  Choose a vibrating slim anal toy to relax the anus even more.  Toys of Eros favorites are the Silicone Pop Beads, the O’Boy, and the Harvey. They are all the size of a finger, made of safe silicone material, and vibrate. The three most important ingredients of anal play are relaxation, lubrication, and communication. Relaxation:   The anus is made of two


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New to BDSM? 4 Women share their experience.

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How to practice BDSM for the first time WITHOUT GETTING UPSET. BDSM* is in vogue and recent erotic novels and films have achieved the unthinkable, making a practice that was once seen as a weird fetish the norm. And sure, they had to release a blockbuster and sell thousands of books along the way, but hey… at least we’ve made progress! Following the world premiere, where Anna met Christian and discovered that dungeons can sometimes take the form of sexy red rooms, thousands of women jumped on the “50 Shades” bandwagon and vowed to fulfil their most secret fantasies. BDSM is a game – and a very exciting one at that – where there are clear, precise rules that, for once, aren’t meant be broken, given that your wellbeing also plays a part (tip of the day: set limits, arrange everything beforehand, define safe words and choose the right tools). With this in mind, Toys of Eros asked 4 women about their BDSM experiences in order to provide you with useful advice for when the moment arises. Are you ready?   Morgan, 32 Once I understood that I wasn’t suffering from emotional problems, and just liked how latex and leather shined on my skin, I approached


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Here’s the 411 on Female Ejaculation

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August 4th, 2016 by Suzannah Weiss Read original article on Of all the things our bodies do, perhaps nothing is shrouded in more mystery than female ejaculation. Headlines and online forums are constantly speculating as to what it’s made of, how it’s triggered, and even whether or not it actually happens. We’ve been in the dark for so long about this phenomenon because it’s kind of hard to study in a laboratory setting, sex therapist Vanessa Marin points out. But we do know that it’s real, and contrary to recent rumors, it’s not just pee. Female ejaculate is actually made of the same stuff as semen, minus the sperm, says Good Vibrations staff sexologist Carol Queen, Ph.D. The same way the clitoris is similar to the penis, the G-spot is like the prostate (in fact, scientists call it the prostata femina), and stimulating it can yield a similar response. Though the numbers aren’t known, she and Marin both think a small minority of women ejaculate already and more probably could with the right stimulation. If you want to try it yourself, Marin recommends using the Njoy Pure Wand on your G-spot while stimulating your clitoris. If you’re worried about


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History of The Vibrator

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The Provincetown History of Sex Museum  by, Toys of Eros THE BIRTH OF THE VIBRATOR It all began in ancient Greece, when Hippocrates decided that almost all diseases that befell women were due to an illness of their reproductive system. He called this disease Hysteria. (Hysto is Latin for uterus.)  His treatment for hysteria was to induce a “paroxysm.” Hippocrates’ recorded instructions for other physicians, explaining how to induce a paroxysm and cure hysteria:

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Winter at Toys of Eros

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We love the winter. This is when Toys of Eros shines.  We can really talk to you, and advise you with your shopping.  Often you’re alone in the store, and get our undivided attention.  You can ask all those embarrassing questions you don’t want to ask in front of 50 strangers.  You can touch and turn on everything in the store and we have time to explain everything.  And most of the merchandise in our store (and most other stores) is always on sale in the winter.

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When both of us love vibration…

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The best vibrators are the ones we can use together!  We all love to orgasm with vibrators. (Well, OK, 99% of us.) For some of us, it’s the only way we like to cum.  So we do all different things with our vibrators.

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Uberlube…Provincetown’s favorite lube

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Uberlube… Provincetown Favorite Lube If you want to consult an expert on lube, talk to a gay man.  Here at Toys of Eros, we give away 100’s of samples of Uberlube a day.  And it seems like everyone comes back the next day to buy it.  The men of Provincetown have declared it their favorite lube of all time. And that’s enough for us. In Short: The slipperiness is perfect and lasts forever. It doesn’t stain sheets or clothing,

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A Toys of Eros Favorite

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The Sesso Sex Strap is one of Toys of Eros top choices to amp up sex with a partner. First, we love the Sesso because it lets the woman on the bottom tilt her pelvis up, and keep her legs wide open and straight up in the air, without ANY EFFORT!   This position of being completely wide open to your partner, creates a feeling of vulnerability, deep intimacy, and excitement that’s super, super hot.  And since most of us can’t stay in this position very long without becoming uncomfortable, we never get to enjoy this position. This is where the Sesso shines!

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All HAIL the MAGIC Wand!

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The Best Sexual Staple for WOMEN After 40 years of use, research, trial and error – HITACHI has outdone themselves!  For those of you over 45, you will truly appreciate the new and improved Hitachi Magic Wand. The Hitachi is by far, one of the strongest vibrators on the scene. However, I am sure that some of you may recall previous experiences involving a really loud, heavy, and distracting device.

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