So he/she wants to have anal sex. First things first. No matter what anyone tells you, no one enjoys anal penetration with an average sized penis, or a dildo the size of a penis, without first working up to it. And by working up to it, we don’t mean using a finger for 10 seconds and then sticking your penis inside his/her anus. Working up to anal penetration with a penis, means using different sized toys over many sex sessions. To keep it pleasurable, everyone must start out small. Once someone turns off to anal sex, it’s difficult to come back to it. Don’t start with a finger: Many newbies think the way to start exploring anal sex is with a finger. Don’t. A finger isn’t necessarily smooth and thin. There are toys that are smaller and smoother than a finger. Choose a vibrating slim anal toy to relax the anus even more. Toys of Eros favorites are the Silicone Pop Beads, the O’Boy, and the Harvey. They are all the size of a finger, made of safe silicone material, and vibrate. The three most important ingredients of anal play are relaxation, lubrication, and communication. Relaxation: The anus is made of two …
