How to practice BDSM for the first time WITHOUT GETTING UPSET. BDSM* is in vogue and recent erotic novels and films have achieved the unthinkable, making a practice that was once seen as a weird fetish the norm. And sure, they had to release a blockbuster and sell thousands of books along the way, but hey… at least we’ve made progress! Following the world premiere, where Anna met Christian and discovered that dungeons can sometimes take the form of sexy red rooms, thousands of women jumped on the “50 Shades” bandwagon and vowed to fulfil their most secret fantasies. BDSM is a game – and a very exciting one at that – where there are clear, precise rules that, for once, aren’t meant be broken, given that your wellbeing also plays a part (tip of the day: set limits, arrange everything beforehand, define safe words and choose the right tools). With this in mind, Toys of Eros asked 4 women about their BDSM experiences in order to provide you with useful advice for when the moment arises. Are you ready? Morgan, 32 Once I understood that I wasn’t suffering from emotional problems, and just liked how latex and leather shined on my skin, I approached …